Q:When you leave for tour, what is the thing that you miss the most that you leave behind?
Aside from my mom absolutely nothing.
Q:hey Carlos, just wanted to say that I hope you like the fan sign book and thank you so much for being a real hero 💕
I’m far from it but thank you for thinking that I am. Really appreciate the gift and everyone contributed towards making :D
Q:Hi I'm Daniella Julia, I hope you liked the signs everyone made! I'm really happy I got to make one for you! 😄😊
It was the sweetest thing ever, thank you so much.
Q:Dear Carlos. I am part of the book you received of all your fans with signs of their own and I also met you when you came to Tucson on April 6 (I'm the awkward girl that you signed her ticket). You probably don't remember me, but I just want to say that no matter what brings you down in life, you're amazing and you've saved many lives. So you should keep going and believe in yourself for them. Okaibai. :)
That book is one of the coolest things I have ever received. Thank you so so so much for being part of it.
Q:you have supplied me with various shirts at ace of spades in sacramento, i love seeing your cute face, thank you carlos :)
Well thanks for supporting the bands I work for :) really appreciate it ^_^
Q:I went to the Miami marine stadium today I wanted to go in to take some pictures... But there was cops everywhere I just couldn't find a way in, I wanted to know how you managed to get in before you went on tour??
This might come across as rude but it’s kind of a place for those that went there before it got all this random attention.
The only way you might be able to avoid the cops if it’s someone like me who’s been going there forever takes you through one of our tunnels.
With all this said, I hope the heat dies down in the stadium. All this unwanted attention is sure to bring an end to such a great place real quick.
Q:hey just wanted to say youre awesome :) love ya
Haha! Thanks ^_^ you rock :D
Q:Do you know who you'll be working for on Warped Tour yet? :) I would love to meet you!
I will be with a band called “ATTILA”. Be sure to swing by their merch table and say what’s up :)
Q:Hi Carlos, it's Lauren. I'm in a really rough patch right now. Things have been absolutely great with my boyfriend of one year, until he broke up with me yesterday.. He said he was depressed and wasn't able to be in a relationship. I'm honestly a wreck. I didn't just lose my boyfriend, but my bestfriend, the one person I do everything with. I relapsed after being 5 months clean as well. I honestly have no hope left. I'm alone and scared. What do I even do?
Man I don’t know if it’s fate or whatnot but this message hits way to close to home right now. The truth is I don’t have any solid advice since I don’t know both sides of the story, just yours. However, I can say a few things just from experience.
First: Ending a relationship is never an easy choice, specially if you’re the one deciding on doing so. There’s a common misconception that guys are A-holes and that they don’t care about girls. I would have to disagree with that to some extent and say that it’s because we care that we decide to call an end to things.
Second: If you keep up to date with me you would know I’m a big believer in pursuing happiness. If you’re ex was unhappy, as much as it hurts you, I encourage his departure. Specially when it comes with the benefit of his potential mental status going from depressed to being happy. Also, if you really care about him, you would want him to leave. Temporary suffering is worth it every time if the outcome is never ending joy. Knowing that the person you cared about the most is now doing better (though not emotionally the easiest thing to accept) should in long term bring joy and pride to yourself and in consequence happiness to you.
Third: Just because your intimate relationship has ended by no means does your friendship have to. This is someone who you’ve spent a lot of time with and ultimately somebody who has in a small way, shaped who you are right now. At first it might be extremely hard to think of spending time with your ex and not picture what you had before. If given the right time though, I believe a positive, beneficial friendship can remain. Until then however, I recommend removing all photos/video from your phone and just anything that might remind you of them. You don’t want to dwell on the past too much, specially with so much future ahead.
Lastly, I’m extremely bummed out to hear about your relapse; I am however pleased to hear that you’re at least reaching out to talk about the situation. Like I said before, a break up is never easy and it always helps when you talk about it with someone. I sincerely wish you and your ex the best and just always remember that life goes on. No matter the situation just think to yourself “life goes on”.
Q:You're probably one of my favorite people in the world
In the entire world? Wow…that’s pretty intense. Thank you :D
Q:How did you get into being a merch guy? I'd love to do that! I'm just curious because it seems like a great thing I'd want to do.
Long story short, I was was at the right place at the right time. There’s a video on youtube somewhere of me talking about it if you want the lengthy story. Just type in “how I became a Merch guy” or something like that.
Q:youre going on tour with Chiodos right???
Yup! I’ll be working for Hands Like Houses on that tour.
Q:HI I LOVE YOU A LOT. I FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN FEELING SAD LATELY AND I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT WE CARE AND LOVE YOU <3 :)
Thanks Anon. Being sad is normal, it’s how you cope with it that’s important. Considering the circumstances I think I’m doing kind of okay; it helps to have messages like this to cheer me up.
Q:im excited you're coming to El Paso on April 8 and June 3 im assuming you're coming on April 8 with blessthefall but can i ask why you're coming on June 3?
I’ll be touring with Hands Like Houses in June before warped so that’s who you’ll see me with :)